| SUCCESSFUL PARENTING
Continued from last week
This worlds educational system is steeped in
the satanic theory of evolution, as well as a continual
erosion of any sense of morality or values.
One of the fundamental keys in parenting is that
we must actively be demonstrating to our children
that Gods way works for us! By the example of
our own lives, we must be able to show our children
that Gods principles will bring joy to their
lives far beyond what Satans system has to offer.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,
longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness,
self-control (Galatians 5:2223). If you
ask people on the street whether they would like to
have a life full of love, joy and peace, universally
they will say: Absolutely! The problem
is that the average person today does not recognize
the principles of God as the cause that will bring
the effect of a very stable and joyous life. This
occurs primarily because the world has not been called
to true Christianity; rather, it is exposed to a false
so-called Christianity.
We as parents must expose our children to the truth
of the Bible; not just in the truth (doctrine) we
teach, but also in the truth we live. If children
experience a parent who gives unconditional love,
has clear-cut rules that are consistently reinforced
and genuinely displays the fruits of Gods Spirit,
it will not be difficult for them to develop respect
and obedience to God as they grow up.
Many people have accepted the satanic lie that Gods
way of life is a real drag. They think
God restricts us from every pleasure, resulting in
a dull life of suffering and self-denial. If this
is our image of God, our children will in time notice
our approachand it will become their image of
God as well. If, instead, parents are truly thankful
for the great God, and grasp the tremendous blessing
of understanding Gods way of life (which defines
what is harmful for us and what will bring an abundant
life, emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually),
our children will internalize this instead.
A Christians children have a special blessing.
The Apostle Paul reminded the Corinthians that a child
with even one converted Christian parent is holy
(1 Corinthians 7:14)which means that such a
child is unique in Gods sight and has been set
apart. But will all such children of believers
eagerly respond to God? Their physical parents can
play a major role in making it very easyor very
difficultfor them to respond.
We need to realize that to be called by God
simply means that one has received an invitation from
God. Sometimes invitations are sent to those asked
to come to a wedding. Often, the invitation is sent
with an R.S.V.P., which requests your response to
the invitation. If you intend to come, you must let
the host know your intentions so a place will be saved
for you.
Jesus Christ taught that the Kingdom of Heaven is
like an invitation to a wedding: The kingdom
of heaven is like a certain king who arranged a marriage
for his son, and sent out his servants to call those
who were invited to the wedding; and they were not
willing to come (Matthew 22:23). As with
any invitation, some individuals accept, and some
do not even bother to respond.
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