| SUCCESSFUL PARENTING: CHILDREN LOVE
MEANINGFUL ACTIVITY
By Maren Schmidt
The young child's love of work, or being involved
in meaningful activity, is an inborn trait. With proper
nourishment this love survives a lifetime. Even in
utero the child is involved in what can only be classified
as work--growing and moving in a confined environment.
Movement defines a child's activity from the first
kick in the womb or grasp of a finger, to learning
to sit up, crawl, walk, talk and thousands of other
activities. The child has an innate need to move,
and movement, in turn, aids development and learning
in the human being.
Freedom to move, within the limits of safety, is
essential to our positive growth. And do children
love to move!
Children's movements may not seem like purposeful
work to us. If we could sit back and watch a child
in an environment where we didn't have to worry about
them getting into something they shouldn't, we might
observe the children's natural impulses. With interesting
objects in the environment and motives to be involved
in activity, we should see children moving to explore
and orient themselves and choosing to be involved
in self-selected meaningful activities.
On the first day of school, three-year-old Andreas
was constantly on the move. In the course of an hour,
Andreas had touched almost a hundred different objects
in the classroom. He climbed the bookshelves to reach
framed pictures on the top shelves. His needs for
movement and creating order seemed to be at full speed.
His activity was exhausting to watch, and his movements
pushed the envelope of safety.
On the second day of class, Andreas' teacher invited
him to sit next to her and watch the other children
in the classroom who were working on self-selected
activities. Andreas' sense of order started to come
into play as he watched how the other children where
interacting with the objects and people in the classroom.
When his teacher asked him what looked interesting
to him, Andreas mentioned sweeping with a broom. After
having a lesson on how to sweep wood shavings into
a square outlined on the floor and then use a dust
pan, Andreas spent 15 minutes sweeping up large wood
shavings, re-scattering the shavings and sweeping
them up again.
Movement directed towards purposeful work created
calmness in Andreas. In these moments of calm reflection,
Andreas was able to choose another interesting activity,
do it to his satisfaction, return the activity to
order and then choose the next activity. In this way
Andreas created a cycle of work, lengthening his concentration
and aiding his learning.
Andreas' teacher helped Andreas by connecting his
innate love of work to an interesting and purposeful
activity of his choice. His teacher's understanding
and support of the inborn characteristics of young
children--love of order and love of work--calmed Andreas'
hyperactivity. Instead of seeing his behavior as impossibly
chaotic, Andreas' teacher understood that there was
a young boy trying to connect to his natural love
of activity, or work.
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